Thinking · Version 0.2

The ideas underneath how I work

Four ideas I keep coming back to. Three feel settled enough to build on, and one is still emerging.

Practitioner-informed · Continuing to evolve

Core thinking

01 Systems thinking

We are situated within systems.

SOCIETYFAMILYFRIENDSTEAM &ORGANIZATIONif anyCOMMUNITIESSELFANOTHER PERSON’S CIRCLES

1 · Start with one person

It starts with you: the beliefs you hold, how you see things, the stories you tell yourself, and the way you act.

2 · We belong to many systems at once

Family, friends, teams and organizations, communities: each one a circle we are part of, all held within a wider society.

3 · The circles do not stay the same

A new job can pull one closer. A move abroad can stretch another. Some circles grow, some shrink, some fade, depending on where life takes us and where we put our attention.

4 · And they look different for each of us

Someone sitting in the same team may belong to a very different set of circles. That is why the same situation can feel so different from person to person.

5 · Influence runs both ways

Our beliefs, perceptions, stories, and behaviors are shaped by what is around us. And in the same way, we shape the people and systems around us.

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So when we say we are working on ourselves, our team, or our organization, understanding the influence we have on one another is where things begin. It is why I look at the whole system, not only at the individual in front of me.

02 Action and active non-action

Slowing down is also a way of acting.

There are times when the most useful move is to step back, rather than staying active just because the environment pushes us to.

Slowing down is not the opposite of action. It is what keeps the next action intentional rather than automatic.

THE BALCONY · SLOW, STILLWhat am I reallytrying to do?What is one smallthing I could try?What did I notice?What did I learn?THE DANCE FLOOR · IN MOTION

1 · Pause and ask why

2 · Choose one small experiment

3 · Try it on the dance floor

4 · Step back and reflect

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03 Most change isn't visible

Some of what changes is visible. Most of it isn't.

I use two words, tentatively, for the visible and the invisible: external and internal becoming.

WHAT OTHERS SEEshiftstransitionslearning momentsWHAT GROWS UNDERNEATHCongrats!

External becoming

A new role, title, country, company, or family. What other people can see and name.

Internal becoming

Renegotiating identity, perspective, agency, and meaning. Not always transformation: it can be adaptation, continuity, resistance, or integration.

Often a lonely journey

Internal becoming is often a lonely journey, and it carries real weight. Others cheer the new title. Few see what it took underneath.

The roots keep deepening

The path above keeps changing. Underneath, what was heavy can become a foundation to grow from.

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The work I offer keeps internal becoming at the center. A steady place to sort through what is changing and decide what to carry forward.

04 What helps people keep going Emerging hypothesis

What conditions make growth more likely?

To support growth and change, there seem to be some conditions that make growing more likely, especially growth that involves internal becoming (see card 3). My hypothesis is the following four:

EXPAND PERSPECTIVEFELLOW TRAVELERSSUSTAINING SYSTEMSSTRENGTHEN AGENCY?

Three conditions, each on its own

A wider perspective. Fellow travelers. Practices and rhythms that sustain the hidden work. Each can make a difference by itself.

And sometimes together

When they meet, they seem to reinforce one another. How exactly is what I am still exploring.

Toward agency

Alone or together, they seem to lead toward the fourth: a stronger sense of agency, the confidence to make intentional choices and take a step forward.

Growth becomes more likely

Not guaranteed. More likely. That is the hypothesis I am testing in practice.

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Expand Perspective

Design or create space where questioning pre-held assumptions and meeting new ways of seeing ourselves and the systems around us can occur.

Find Fellow Travelers

Design or create space that fosters relationships and communities that reduce isolation and make uncertainty feel normal.

Create Sustaining Systems

Incorporate practices, rhythms, and structures that carry the hidden work between formal learning moments.

Strengthen Agency

Feel excited to make intentional choices and experiment amid uncertainty, take a step forward, and find a way to keep oneself accountable, while recognizing, as the designer of the conditions, that context has influence on how individual agency manifests.

Questions I am exploring +
  • Are these the right conditions, or are we missing something?
  • How do the conditions interact and reinforce one another?
  • Which experiences best cultivate each condition?
  • How might AI support the hidden work between interventions?
  • How might this framework evolve across cultures and contexts?
  • How can organizations design intentionally for this kind of growth?
More on the framework +

Designing for the system

None of this happens in a vacuum. Structures, power, resources, culture, and relationships all shape what is actually possible for a person, which is why designing for conditions means designing for the system, not only for the individual.

Where AI can help

AI tools can make this work more powerful when designed in with intention, carrying some of the load so our attention goes to what only humans can, and perhaps should, do.

What it draws on

Work by Mezirow; Black & Warhurst; Ibarra, Wittman & Smith; Baxter Magolda; Greer & Minnis; and Hihara and colleagues.

Where it is being tested

I am presenting this as a poster at the AHRD Asia Chapter Japan conference, 2026 (Designing Developmental Experiences for Internal Becoming: An Emerging Practitioner Framework for Human Resource Development). Still evolving: practitioner-led thinking, tested in practice.

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